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The Bloody History Of Saint Valentine

By AlatiphA - February 14, 2015

The real history of Valentine's Day is not comprised of roses, chocolates and pretty cards. Instead, crime, imprisonment and execution are at the genesis of our modern day love fest, dating back to the man whose martyrdom may have inspired the holiday. There were reportedly three early Christian saints named Valentine, but the one the holiday likely comes from was a Roman priest during the 3rd century A.D. under Emperor Claudius II. The Roman Empire was experiencing massive turmoil at the time. Dubbed the 'Crisis of the Third Century' by scholars, this period saw the empire divide into three competing states, with the threat of invasion all around. Claudius made the unpopular decision to ban marriage among young people, believing that unmarried soldiers fought better than married soldiers. With the Roman Empire hanging by a thread, Claudius needed all the brazen war power he could get. This is where Valentine comes in; the pesky priest who believed marriage to be a God-g...

To My Porn-Watching Dad, From Your Daughter

By AlatiphA - December 17, 2014

Dear Dad, I want to let you know first of all that I love you and forgive you for what this has done in my life. I also wanted to let you know exactly what your porn use has done to my life. You may think that this effects only you, or even your and mom’s relationships. But it has had a profound impact on me and all of my siblings as well. I found your porn on the computer somewhere around the age of 12 or so, just when I was starting to become a young woman. First of all, it seemed very hypocritical to me that you were trying to teach me the value of what to let into my mind in terms of movies, yet here you were entertaining your mind with this junk on a regular basis. Your talks to me about being careful with what I watched meant virtually nothing. Because of pornography, I was aware that mom was not the only woman you were looking at. I became acutely aware of your wandering eye when we were out and about. This taught me that all men have a wandering eye and can’t be t...

Wedding Test – Adults Only

By AlatiphA - August 24, 2014

My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating over a year and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me…It was her beautiful younger sister. My prospective 21 year old sister-in-law , always wore very tight mini skirts, and often times went bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I've always got more than a nice view. One day her little sis called and asked me to come over to check out the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome. She told me that she wanted to have me just once before I get married, and commit my life to her sister. Well, I was in total shock, and couldn’t say a word. She said, "I’m going upstairs to my room, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me". I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go upstairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and headed...

Internet Love

By AlatiphA - May 28, 2014

Girl: Dad, I'm in love with a boy who is far away from me. I am in Ghana and he lives in UK. We met on a dating website, became friends on facebook, had long chats on whatsapp, proposed to each other on skype, and now we've had two months of relationship through viber. I need your blessings and good wishes daddy. Dad: Wow! Really!! then get married on twitter, have fun on tango. Buy your kids on e-bay, send them through gmail. And if you are fed up with your husband.... sell him on Tonaton .

Don't give up loving!

By AlatiphA - January 29, 2012

There was this man who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung him. The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the scorpion stung him again. Another man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him. But the man said, "It is the nature of the scorpion to sting. It is my nature to love. Why should I give up my nature to love just because it is the nature of the scorpion to sting?" LESSON: Don't give up loving? Don't give up your goodness even if the people around you sting you. The greatness comes not when things are always going well for you. But the greatness comes when you're really tested, when you take some knocks, some disappointments, when sadness comes.. . Because only if you've been in the deepest valley can you ever know how magnificent it is to be on the highest mountain.

What is love?

By AlatiphA - November 20, 2011

What is love? But an emotion, So strong and so pure, That nurtured and shared with another All tests it will endure? What is love? But a force To bring the mighty low, With the strength to shame the mountains And halt time’s ceaseless flow? What is love? But a triumph, A glorious goal attained, The union of two souls, two hearts A bond the angels have ordained? What is love? But a champion, To cast the tyrant from his throne, And raise the flag of truth and peace, And fear of death o’erthrow? What is love? But a beacon, To guide the wayward heart, A blazing light upon the shoals That dash cherished dreams apart? What is love? But forever, Eternal and sincere, A flame that through wax and wane Will outlive life’s brief years? What is love? So I’ll tell it on the mountain tops, In all places high and low, That love for you is my reason to be, And will never break or bow

Temporal madness!

By AlatiphA - October 06, 2011

"Love is a temporal madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.

Anyway! It was not between you and them.

By AlatiphA - September 13, 2011

People are often unreasonable and self-centred, forgive them anyway. If you are honest, People may cheat you, be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous, be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow, do good anyway. The people you care for may not appreciate your affection, love them anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough, give your best anyway. Because in the end, it is between YOU & GOD! It was never between YOU & THEM anyway!

For guys! 'It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean'

By AlatiphA - July 30, 2011

Sometimes I feel sorry for guys who're being bombarded with some sexual enhancement product. As a lady, I don't care the size of my man's member. Some men can have surgery which can lead to painful erections, shorter erections, or erectile dysfunction. Some men turn to penis pumps, penis rings and enlargers to temporarily increase the size of their penis. A man who uses the pump for too long, can create too much pressure, which can cause lasting tissue and vascular damage. Likewise, a penis ring will help maintain an erection, but won't make it larger. Finally, know that a research review published in the journal BJU International suggests that penis size matters more to men than to women: When the researchers looked at more than 50 studies spanning the course of 60 years, they found that 85 percent of women were satisfied with their partner's penis size, yet only 55 percent of men felt good about their penises. But take it from me and a lady. The old adage ...

Freedom from love?

By AlatiphA - July 28, 2011

Is there a time when love will remain still in our hearts? Or will it move in constant motion toward an unknown? Is there ever a time when our hearts will accept the love given? And offer more than we have ever known without asking for more? Is there a time, perhaps a crack in the universe where I can hide devoid of all watching eyes? And reaching hands that only take where all pain oozes from my pores? And escapes me where all the tears fall from my eyes onto waiting planets in need of rain? Is there a place in this universe where I belong without want of anything? Is there a spot that I can call my own without needing anyone? Let me crawl into that black hole where everything disappears into oblivion's Grasping fingertips, finally releasing me into freedom. Freedom from love?

Food for thoughts! Anger and Love have no limits.

By AlatiphA - July 26, 2011

Anger and Love have no limits; choose LOVE to have a beautiful lovely life ... THINGS are to be USED and PEOPLE are to be LOVED, but the problem in today's world is that, PEOPLE are USED and THINGS are LOVED ... Let's be careful to keep this thought in mind: THINGS are to be USED, but PEOPLE are to be LOVED ... Do you LOVE THINGS more and USE PEOPLE or do you LOVE PEOPLE more and USE THINGS? ... Watch your THOUGHTS; they become WORDS. Watch your WORDS; theybecome ACTIONS. Watch your ACTIONS; they become HABITS. Watch your HABITS; they become your CHARACTER. Watch your CHARACTER; it becomes your DESTINY.

I love you dad!

By AlatiphA - July 26, 2011

While a man was polishing his new car, his four year old son picked up a stone and scratched on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times; not realising he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father ... with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it alot of times. Devasted by his own actions ... sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written ' I LOVE YOU DAD.'

Who says men don't remember aniversaries?

By AlatiphA - July 25, 2011

A woman wakes up during the night to find that her husband was not in bed. She puts on her robe and goes downstairs to look for him. She finds him sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee infront of him. He apears deep in thought just staring at the wall. She watches as he wipes a tear from his eyes and takes a sip of coffee. "What's the matter dear?" she whispers as she steps into the room. Why are you down here at this time of the night?" The husband looks up. "Do you remember twenty years ago when we were dating and you were seventeen?" he asks solemly. The wife is touched thinking her husband is so caring and sensitive. "yes I do, she replied". The husband pauses. The words are not coming easily. "do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car?" Yes, I remember says the wife lowering herself into a chair beside him. The husband continues...Do you remember when he showed a shotgun in my fa...

Betrayal!

By AlatiphA - July 25, 2011

It is bad enough when a stranger or foe betrays you, but when it is someone you believed to be a close and trusted friend, partner, or spouse, it is especially hurtful. It might feel like you were taken advantage of, deceived, humiliated, despised, cheated, or stabbed in the back. Oftentimes it comes as a surprise. That is why it is so painful. You would not expect to be hurt so badly from someone you thought you could trust. So you are left in disbelief and unbelievable pain. Anyone who has experienced betrayal in a relationship knows how difficult it is to recover from such an experience. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be. So you wonder what happened. Were you just wrong about them all along or did something change? Maybe your relationship changed and so did their loyalty to you. Maybe something in either or both of your lives has changed and they became insensitive to you. Or, maybe yo...

My gentle love! A love that is it's own reward.

By AlatiphA - July 21, 2011

My gentle love 'll bloom in the garden of whose heart? Penetrating his mind through the path of logic. Bridging the gap of understanding to the unknown. He'll come to nestle within the warmth of my soul. Finding a home of comfort and true acceptance. Strength and masculinity, he finds a solid standing, earning my love. The answer to all questions in certain dreams and waking reality God's creation, a work in progress of 24 years. Vision and substance only the Creator could bring to life, Deeper than any ocean. Our love 'll be more vast than the universe. This 'll be a mind, body and soul connection. Words 'll not be able to express such beauty. Love that gives with no expectation. A love that is it's own reward. That's my kind of love.

If you leave me I'll die. A sad love story!

By AlatiphA - July 20, 2011

One night a girl and her boy were sitting in a car. There was a complete silence, both of them stayed quiet for long, then the boy gave her a chit of paper. Before reading it, the girl told the boy (with embarrassing expression) that she wants to leave him. Then suddenly an overspeeding car collided with their car. The boy died and the girl somehow survived and when she opened the chit (which was in her purse), she dropped tears bcoz the boy had written only one line on it which was "if u leave me i'll die".

Who is a Girl? A Girl is the most Beautiful part of Gods creation.

By AlatiphA - July 16, 2011

A Girl is the most Beautiful part of God's creation. She starts compromising at a very tender age. She sacrifices her chocolates for her brother. Later she sacrifices her love for just a smile on her parents face. She sacrifices her full youth for her husband & children without complain. Finally her life ends up only by compromising for others happiness. She is that creature of God, who no one can compete. Respect every Girl/Lady in your Life. You will never know what she has sacrificed for you. Share it to every girl to make her smile & every boy to make him realise her worth.

FIVE THINGS which WEAKEN the relations!

By AlatiphA - June 20, 2011

Misbehaving Ignoring Lying Breaking promises Doubting ...heart is de greatest cheater in the world it make the million of different excuses to stay in touch with the person u love. ...when u truly care for someone their mistakes never changes our feeling bcoz it is the mind that get angry but the heart still care

Never!

By AlatiphA - June 08, 2011

Never say I LOVE YOU If u don't really CARE Never talk about FEELING If they aren't really THERE Never HOLD MY HANDS If u're going to break MY HEART Never say u're going to STAY If u don't intend to START Never look in to MY EYES If all u do is LIE Never say HELLO If u really mean GOOD BYE If u really mean FOREVER then U'll TRY Never SAY Never CAUSE Never make me CRY I will always love you

SIX THINGS which STRENGTHEN relations!

By AlatiphA - June 08, 2011

Good attitude Respecting Entertaining Helping Trusting Forgiving mistakes ...Someone sits and wonders How we got here? How can we love someone so much? I never imagined that I would fall in love with Someone Who I never expected to meet Some call it " LUCK " I call it " FATE " ...Loving someone is not away About fairytales and fantasies It is all about TRUTH and REALITIES